{"id":1104,"date":"2022-08-04T23:03:12","date_gmt":"2022-08-04T16:03:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/workingin.cloud\/?p=1104"},"modified":"2022-08-04T23:09:26","modified_gmt":"2022-08-04T16:09:26","slug":"tinh-duc-ngoai-hon-nhan-kham-pha-nhung-hau-qua-khong-the-tranh-khoi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/123.guong.com.vn\/?p=1104","title":{"rendered":"T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n: Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: center;\"><b><strong>T\u00ccNH D\u1ee4C NGO\u00c0I H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N:<br \/>KH\u00c1M PH\u00c1 NH\u1eeeNG H\u1eacU QU\u1ea2 KH\u00d4NG TH\u1ec2 TR\u00c1NH KH\u1eceI<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: right;\"><em><b><strong>T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Heather Gallagher\u00a0v\u00e0 Peter Vlahutin<\/strong><\/b><br \/><\/em><\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_65 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href=\"https:\/\/123.guong.com.vn\/?p=1104\/#Thieu_tin_tuong_hoac_so_cam_ket_cho_tuong_lai\" title=\"Thi\u1ebfu tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ho\u1eb7c s\u1ee3 cam k\u1ebft cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai\">Thi\u1ebfu tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ho\u1eb7c s\u1ee3 cam k\u1ebft cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/123.guong.com.vn\/?p=1104\/#Tram_cam_hay_tu_tu\" title=\"Tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m hay t\u1ef1 t\u1eed\">Tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m hay t\u1ef1 t\u1eed<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/123.guong.com.vn\/?p=1104\/#Cam_thay_toi_loi_xau_ho_va_hoi_tiec\" title=\"C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc\">C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" 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nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u0169<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/123.guong.com.vn\/?p=1104\/#Xa_cach_Thien_Chua\" title=\"Xa c\u00e1ch Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa\">Xa c\u00e1ch Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Dieu_gi_co_the_sai_lam_that_su\"><\/span>\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sai l\u1ea7m th\u1eadt s\u1ef1?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 l\u00fd (ai m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft!). V\u00ec th\u1ebf nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n tu\u1ed5i m\u1edbi l\u1edbn tin r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd tr\u00e1nh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c b\u1ec7nh l\u00e2y qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c hay vi\u1ec7c mang thai, th\u00ec t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c s\u1ebd v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i. Ngo\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ra, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sai l\u1ea7m. Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u nh\u1eefng m\u1ea9u chuy\u1ec7n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi ngay c\u1ea3 trong phim \u1ea3nh, c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 phim c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat g\u00ec v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9c trong s\u1ea1ch hay s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn tho\u00e1ng v\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi Frau v\u00e0 Dr. Evil quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c trong phim Austin Power II: \u0110i\u1ec7p vi\u00ean \u0111eo b\u00e1m (The spy who shagged me), h\u1ecd th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn v\u1edbi nhau r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec th\u00e0nh \u201ck\u1ef3 l\u1ea1\u201d c\u1ea3 sau khi h\u1ecd quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. Trong ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u201ck\u1ef3 l\u1ea1\u201d c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1ed1n th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t hay hai h\u00f4m sau, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn \u201c\u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1!\u201d. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tu\u00e2n gi\u1eef th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u00fa vui v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng Frau gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00ec Dr. Evil \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i cho c\u00f4, v\u00e0 c\u00f4 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0o n\u1eefa. \u201cY\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kia\u201d lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 \u0111i k\u00e8m, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">D\u00f9 mu\u1ed1n d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng, th\u00ec t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u0169ng t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa hai c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. Hai t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, hai kh\u1ed1i \u00f3c v\u00e0 hai linh h\u1ed3n quy\u1ec7n v\u00e0o nhau. C\u00e1c kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh phi th\u1ec3 l\u00fd c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c xem c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng g\u00ec do ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ra l\u00e0 c\u00f3. Trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ec1 \u201cT\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi\u201d (trang 76), ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c thanh s\u1ea1ch trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd ch\u00fac ph\u00fac, c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 gia t\u0103ng m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn xem t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, tr\u00ed kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 linh h\u1ed3n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi\u1ec7c k\u00edch th\u00edch t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c lu\u00f4n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, cho c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam l\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef. M\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean nh\u01b0ng g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 l\u00fd \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y oxytocin \u2013 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 ho\u00f3c-m\u00f4n ti\u1ebft ra khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c hay khi cho con b\u00fa. Oxytocin g\u00e2y ra l\u00e3ng qu\u00ean n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, gi\u1ea3m kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng suy ngh\u0129 theo l\u00fd tr\u00ed v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef g\u1eafn b\u00f3 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111ang \u1edf b\u00ean m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u0169ng ti\u1ebft ra oxytocin trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh giao h\u1ee3p. Nh\u01b0ng c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f2n ti\u1ebft ra m\u1ed9t ho\u00f3c-m\u00f4n kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 vasopressin. Vasopressin, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cph\u00e2n t\u1eed m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng\u201d, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebft ra sau ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0m t\u0103ng th\u00eam \u00fd th\u1ee9c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">X\u00e9t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t sinh h\u1ecdc, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ban cho ch\u00fang ta ho\u00f3c-m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c nh\u1eb1m ph\u00e1t sinh ra m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap cho v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhau tr\u1ecdn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c x\u1ea3y ra ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng quan h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, th\u00ec s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y sinh nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c ph\u00e1t sinh do t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00ec m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi quan h\u1ec7 ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 li\u00ean k\u1ebft h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y ngay, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c th\u00ec \u00edt r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb t\u1eeb, c\u00f3 khi h\u00e0ng n\u0103m sau \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c\u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i, Heather, \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ecdn s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ea1ch. Khi nghe b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng sinh ho\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, t\u00f4i ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng l\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c xa v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m vui th\u00fa th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 mong \u0111\u1ee3i. Sau khi xong \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c quan s\u00e1t t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u1ebfp theo vi\u1ec7c quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y sau \u0111\u00e2y\u201d.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Hau_qua_cua_tinh_duc_ngoai_hon_nhan\"><\/span>H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Lam_giam_gia_tri_tinh_duc\"><\/span>L\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u1ed7i khi ch\u00fang ta quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i ph\u1ea3i g\u00ecn gi\u1eef cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ea1 gi\u00e1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, coi n\u00f3 th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 y\u00eau nhau. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u00f3n n\u1ee3 vay t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Vuong_vao_cac_moi_quan_he_khong_lanh_manh\"><\/span>V\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng m\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n. Khi c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00ec s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng th\u00eam. Nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i l\u00e2u h\u01a1n mong mu\u1ed1n c\u0169ng v\u00ec s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cac_ky_nang_doi_thoai_va_giai_quyet_van_de_kem_di\"><\/span>C\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 k\u00e9m \u0111i<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ea1ch th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 cho c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi th\u1ec3 l\u00fd l\u1ea5n \u00e1t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i hy sinh s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh. C\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i hay quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd qua vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau. Trong khi nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00ec nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu hy sinh.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mike n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00f4i t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 Deena l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i d\u00e0nh cho t\u00f4i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed7i khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00e3i v\u00e3 th\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u1eb1ng quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i n\u1eefa. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 Deena th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f2n quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ng\u01b0ng quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i th\u00f4i. Than \u00f4i, t\u00f4i ch\u1ee3t nh\u1eadn ra c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00f4i\u201d.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Lam_can_coi_viec_phat_trien_nhan_cach\"><\/span>L\u00e0m c\u1eb1n c\u1ed7i vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eafm m\u00ecnh trong c\u00e1c quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 t\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh ra kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1c sinh ho\u1ea1t, c\u00e1c s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan kh\u00e1c v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cam_giac_ghen_tuong_va_ngo_vuc\"><\/span>C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ghen tu\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ng\u1edd v\u1ef1c<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u1ed1i d\u00e2y li\u00ean k\u1ebft m\u00e0 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c t\u1ea1o n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea5t v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. Trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00e1t sinh do s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft hi\u1ec7p n\u00e0y. Ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, \u00fd ngh\u0129a hi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea5t gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t an l\u1edbn. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u201c\u0111eo b\u00e1m\u201d v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng trai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean k\u1ebb chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cam_thay_nhu_do_vat_bi_dem_ra_su_dung_tu_danh_gia_minh_thap_kem\"><\/span>C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt b\u1ecb \u0111em ra s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng, t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng chi\u1ebfm ph\u1ea7n \u01b0u ti\u00ean nh\u1ea5t. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt b\u1ecb \u0111em ra s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jessica, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i tr\u1ebb, cho bi\u1ebft: \u201cCh\u1eafc ch\u1eafn t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh cao gi\u00e1 khi bi\u1ebft anh \u1ea5y l\u00e1i xe hai ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 anh \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00f4i. Khi t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng anh \u1ea5y ch\u1eb3ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n hay \u0111i d\u1ea1o b\u00ean t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft anh \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. Cho d\u00f9 anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 n\u00f3i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf l\u00e0 anh ta ch\u1eb3ng quan t\u00e2m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n t\u00f4i c\u1ea3\u201d.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Lo_lang_bi_lay_benh_qua_duong_tinh_duc_hoac_co_thai\"><\/span>Lo l\u1eafng b\u1ecb l\u00e2y b\u1ec7nh qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 thai<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Missy \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c cho \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai m\u00e0 c\u00f4 cho l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t. C\u00f4 mu\u1ed1n l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 c\u00f4 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00f4 mu\u1ed1n quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 Carl. Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong l\u1ea7n quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 d\u00f9ng bao cao su b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, c\u00f4 l\u1ea1i m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh l\u00e2y qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. \u1ede tu\u1ed5i 28, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c c\u01a1 quan sinh s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb c\u1eaft b\u1ecf v\u00ec \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh \u1ea5y. Messy kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bao cao su kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ec7nh \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c l\u1ea1i l\u00e2y nhi\u1ec5m qua vi\u1ec7c da ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nhau, nh\u01b0 HPV (Human Papilloma Virus). Ch\u1ec9 ri\u00eang HPV \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y 75% nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. C\u0103n b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y hi\u1ebfm khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n (ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng trong 8% \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nhi\u1ec5m b\u1ec7nh), tuy nhi\u00ean HPV g\u00e2y ra 99% ung th\u01b0 t\u1eed cung \u1edf ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng lo l\u1eafng g\u00ec v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c b\u1ec7nh l\u00e2y qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t b\u1ec7nh v\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 \u00e2m th\u1ea7m \u0111i v\u00e0o c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c g\u00e2y v\u00f4 sinh cho b\u1ea1n hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Thieu_tin_tuong_hoac_so_cam_ket_cho_tuong_lai\"><\/span>Thi\u1ebfu tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ho\u1eb7c s\u1ee3 cam k\u1ebft cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Khi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tan v\u1ee1 th\u00ec theo sau l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i \u0111au. Khi ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh. Khi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng do t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, th\u00ec do t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ee9ng tin h\u01a1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m trao tr\u1ecdn qu\u1ea3 tim c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho ai n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tram_cam_hay_tu_tu\"><\/span>Tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m hay t\u1ef1 t\u1eed<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u0110\u00f4i khi n\u1ed7i \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn do tan v\u1ee1 qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed7i. C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tu\u1ed5i m\u1edbi l\u1edbn c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00ec d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 t\u1eed h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Brian v\u00e0 Eileen y\u00eau nhau say \u0111\u1eafm su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi trung h\u1ecdc. H\u1ecd quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y g\u1eafn k\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau. Khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y chia tay v\u1edbi anh v\u00e0o cu\u1ed1i n\u0103m h\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1i c\u1ea5p, anh b\u1ecb tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed. N\u1ed7i \u0111au m\u1ea5t Eileen qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn khi\u1ebfn anh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed7i.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cam_thay_toi_loi_xau_ho_va_hoi_tiec\"><\/span>C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Khi quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng khi ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec sai tr\u00e1i. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc, nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng qua nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cai_nhin_hoen_o_ve_nguoi_ban_tinh_cua_minh\"><\/span>C\u00e1i nh\u00ecn hoen \u1ed1 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n trai hay b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. Trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0y th\u00ec r\u1ea5t l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. M\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c gi\u00fap cho c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ec1n ch\u1eb7t v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea5t. Ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft n\u00e0y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh ch\u00fat n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 h\u00f4n Chad th\u00f4i, t\u00f4i, Heather, \u0111\u00e3 l\u01a1 \u0111i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00e0y v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c Chad thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9c tin v\u00e0 c\u00f3 v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o ma t\u00fay. T\u00f4i ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 v\u1ebb thanh l\u1ecbch v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3n trai c\u1ee7a anh \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u00fa \u00fd nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c. Ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u1ee5 h\u00f4n, t\u00f4i h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 coi nh\u1eb9 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu v\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i m\u00e0 c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 g\u00ec s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c th\u00ec h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \u1ea5y v\u1edbi Chad.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Khao_khat_cho_doi_tinh_duc_trong_hon_nhan_bi_giam_di\"><\/span>Khao kh\u00e1t ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u1ecb gi\u1ea3m \u0111i<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u. Tuy nhi\u00ean n\u1ebfu c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f2n mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y bao nhi\u00eau v\u00e0o \u0111\u00eam t\u00e2n h\u00f4n, tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n? M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 khu ngh\u1ec9 m\u00e1t cho bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111i h\u01b0\u1edfng tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng vui ch\u01a1i ngo\u00e0i tr\u1eddi; ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 n\u01a1i h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"So_sanh_voi_nhung_nguoi_yeu_cu\"><\/span>So s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u0169<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">K\u00fd \u1ee9c v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Ch\u00fang ta nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c. X\u00e9t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia k\u00edch th\u00edch v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i \u0111em nh\u1eefng k\u00fd \u1ee9c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o gi\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hay c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng so s\u00e1nh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u00f3ng ma nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jennifer th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn: \u201cT\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4 g\u00e1i kh\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f4i. \u0110\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u1ee9 b\u0103n kho\u0103n li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng, anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 mong t\u00f4i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang t\u00f4i chia s\u1ebb cho nhau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o l\u00e0m anh \u1ea5y v\u1ee1 m\u1ed9ng sau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua? L\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 n\u00f3i th\u00ec nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt th\u00f4i trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft anh \u1ea5y y\u00eau t\u00f4i h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 san s\u1ebb v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 qu\u1ea3 tim v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kia. D\u00f9 cho t\u00f4i v\u1eabn hy v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 \u1ea5y v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 c\u00f3 trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00f4i\u201d.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Xa_cach_Thien_Chua\"><\/span>Xa c\u00e1ch Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>T\u1ed9i d\u00e2m d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 v\u00ec t\u1ed9i \u1ea5y l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng sai tr\u00e1i m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 Ch\u00faa ban cho ch\u00fang ta. H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf ra nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 Gi\u00e1ng sinh ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o cho m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u1ea1i t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ti\u1ebfp, v\u1eeba khi m\u1edf m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 ra, m\u1eb9 li\u1ec1n n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u00e2y \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n\u201d, r\u1ed3i m\u1eb9 h\u1ee7y n\u00f3, qu\u0103ng n\u00f3 v\u00e0o th\u00f9ng r\u00e1c. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng do h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan gi\u1eefa hai m\u1eb9 con. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 trong m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 trao ban cho ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n (t\u00e0 d\u00e2m) hay ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n (ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh), th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 vi\u1ebft: \u201cNh\u1eefng k\u1ebb d\u00e2m \u0111\u00e3ng, th\u1edd ng\u1eabu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, tr\u1ee5y l\u1ea1c\u2026 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u01b0\u1edbc Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0m c\u01a1 nghi\u1ec7p\u201d (1Cr 6,9-10). R\u1eddi xa \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa ban v\u00e0 ra kh\u1ecfi quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Ng\u00e0i mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, lu\u00f4n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ebfm h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m h\u01a1n s\u1ef1 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 cao nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n<p>D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 x\u1ea3y ra b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta xa c\u00e1ch Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 hay ch\u00e1n ch\u01b0\u1eddng. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn trong nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd \u00edt h\u01a1n v\u00e0 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 \u00edt tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n tu\u1ed5i m\u1edbi l\u1edbn cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng thi\u1ebfu trong s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3. Tuy nhi\u00ean trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf hai l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n<p>Hunter vi\u1ebft: \u201cB\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, 22 tu\u1ed5i r\u1ed3i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, n\u00ean t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u1edbi l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u1ec1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c s\u1ebd tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 cao h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 cam k\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp nhau v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang t\u00f4i quan t\u00e2m ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu. K\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng m\u1ea9u chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1eadt, v\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u cao \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. V\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i \u1edf ch\u01b0\u01a1ng sau.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: right;\"><b><strong>Chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef:\u00a0<em>Gm. Luy Nguy\u1ec5n Anh Tu\u1ea5n<br \/>v\u00e0 Gioan L\u00ea Quang Vinh<\/em><br \/>Tr\u00edch t\u1eeb s\u00e1ch:\u00a0<a style=\"font-weight: 600;\" href=\"https:\/\/ducbahoabinhbooks-osp.com\/muc-vu\/song-trong-sach\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">S\u1ed1ng Trong S\u1ea1ch<\/a><br \/>Nguy\u00ean t\u00e1c: &#8220;A Case for Chastity&#8221;<br \/>Ngu\u1ed3n:\u00a0<a style=\"font-weight: 600;\" href=\"https:\/\/ubmvgiadinh.org\/bai-viet\/kham-pha-nhung-hau-qua-khong-the-tranh-khoi-cua-viec-quan-he-tinh-duc-3870\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ubmvgiadinh.org (29.6.2022)<\/a><\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c sinh ra m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap cho v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u01b0a ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i th\u00ec s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y sinh nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pgc_sgb_lightbox_settings":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[109],"tags":[138],"series":[],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":6}},"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v18.1 (Yoast SEO v22.4) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n: Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c sinh ra m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap cho v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi. 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